The Wavelength

Late at night , In the month of December 2005 , When the weather was icy chill cold and when it was drizzling after heavy rain as if it was going to stop , I and 4 of my friends were talking about the ‘Wavelength’. There was no power at home , the darkness and the climate was a perfect combination and allowed us to talk some unusual things like the one , I mentioned earlier – ‘the wavelength’.The topic suddenly came when one of my friends started talking about interpersonal communication and friendship. We talked about factors which would bind people together in a relationship – friendship , love or marriage. In the natural conversation , amongst the arguments , One of my friends said,’Its all the wavelength that decides’. You wouldn’t be surprised if I were to tell you that we spoke about wavelength rest of the night , until we slept thinking about it over and again and fell asleep.

He said , “Every man exhibits or emits invisible waves which either repel or attract with other such invisible waves from the fellow humans”.He asked us, ” Have you ever realized or asked Why you like a person and Why you don’t like few people at first sight ? Why you think you will end up in friendship when you see few people and Why you want to avoid a few ? Why you suddenly turn back or look around as if someone had hit you on your back or pinched you on your hand ? – to see someone or to find someone you know with whom you can easily put up a conversation or happily smile along with or to pass on some sincere ‘hi’ through eyes ?”. He then explained,”Its not you but your waves , your own waves that makes you do all such things”. Even when he was saying and even after he said , there was a silence , we all submitted ourselves to his words , his waves attracted the waves we emitted.

He was right. It was true that i wanted to establish friendship with few and I intentionally avoided a few and It will go on for the rest of my life. May be thats why the philosophers had said ,” Tell me who your friend is , i tell you who you are”.

So what is “Wavelength”? Simply the wavelength of the waves we emit or in common terms , the unique term that we use to describe what kind of a person some one is!. People with somewhat similar wavelengths have similar interests so they get so many things in common to talk about or argue about or even laugh about.

Some of us emit waves of bigger wavelength , i know of a person , whom i very much respect and love , had such a great wavelength. No wonder I realized his presence even when i was 100 feet away from him. People with such a great wavelength attracts most of them around them.Every one around them will look up to him / her as sunflowers look up to the sun – to have a glimpse of the person’s eyes, to have a conversation , to share thoughts , to discuss ideas and so on. and yes , There is a serene happiness and pleasure in meeting people with similar wavelength. If you don’t believe any of this – watch for it consciously in your daily walks of life or watch ‘George Bailey’ in ‘Its a Wonderful life’.

You know what ? I have this feeling that every person’s dreams are also emitted as invisible waves and they converse with the entire universe , When the wish or dream is truly felt , the entire universe conspires to make it true. hmm… Do not let go off your wishes and dreams.

Oh yeah , forgot to tell you , there is no correct or wrong wavelength , Its just the uniqueness of it that makes it special. I did not contradict when i said uniqueness of the wavelength – every one’s wavelength is unique – they make friends with similar wavelengths and always, there will be difference in wavelengths between any two individuals.